My mom has been influenced by me alr. She has started watching Ah Wang xin zhuan wif me ever since ytd. Ok,it's only 2 episodes,but i can see that she sorta likes the show too. Heehee. Anyway,there was this touching moment in the show whereby Ah wang presented his award to his mom,thanking her for allowing him to work in a company. His mom was overwhelmed by this filial gesture of his & said "Ah wang ni zhen guai". My mom,upon hearing this,commented "As long as children are guai(obedient),it doesnt matter whether they r smart or talented" Then my mom turned to me & said "zhi yao ni guai,mummy jiu kai xin le". Hmm....touching eh? Yeah~ this is why i adore my mom so much. But hey,i need to emphasize that im not exactly a mummy's girl la. =P
Anyway,the main pt is,as children we shld be filial & obedient. Yes,i noe parents r not always right (i get pissed off & upset wif mine too when i felt im being wronged)but come to think of it,their chu1 fa1 dian3 shi4 hao3 de4. When parents & kids argue,it's probably coz parents have used the wrong way to lecture/scold us. And they may not even noe they have used a wrong way. Think of the times of how worried ur parents were when u were sick, how they spent so much $$$ buying the things that u like,how stressed they were when u were having ur exams. Kids often feel or think their parents dun care for their psychological being,instead,it's their results that they care abt. Yes,mayb some parents r really like that,but haf kids ever wondered why this is so? Parents hope their kids can chu ren tou di mah. Yes,they haf more face in front of their friends/relatives if they haf outstanding kids but ultimately,arent they helping the kids to save face too? Parents haf their own troubles,worrying for their kids add on to the troubles but to them,it's worthwhile de. Sometimes,we kids need to think over carefully wat haf we done to make our parents happy? Did we make them happy more often or make them sad/worried more often? And wat haf we done to make them worry? When i was younger,i used to think my mom din understand wat i wan & that she was always urging me to study. Now when i've become an adult, i dun think that way anymore. Coz i noe her chu1 fa1 dian3 for me is good de. Aiya,nagging is such a chore,u think parents like nagging? No lo......... But they r constantly nagging coz they noe it's good for us. Sounds funny but think abt it. It's true. I nag at my tuition kids too. Coz i wan them to be successful. It's not MY business whether they r successful anot---they r not my kids anyway---but it's really xin1 wei4 to see them excel.
So,to young ppl out there,b4 u flare up at ur parents or blame them for anything,do ponder over this --- wat haf u done for them all this while???
------------------------------------------------------------------
hmm...wat's wrong wif me today? such an emotional entry. muahaha. no la. jus you3 gan3 er2 fa1 only. ;)
Smile always | 10:36 pm
