Some ppl r just so frank. So frank that they dunno that they will hurt ppl's feelings. And i just detest such ppl.
My mom told me this afternoon that one of her colleagues(let's call him E)commented that her daughter(which is ME)looks like a lazy person,everyday slack ard at home having nothing to do.
EXCUSE ME,I BEG UR PARDON??? U R SAYING IM A DAMN LAZY PERSON??? U SAID IT RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY MOM????? Wat rights do u haf to say it anyway?
After my mom told me that,i was like,so pissed off. So FURIOUS. (In case u all dunno,i noe practically evryone in my mom's office coz i often meet her for lunch when she's working and they sorta noe me too)
Anyway,this stupid idiot told my mom that i look like a lan3 san4 person to him. Okay,i ADMIT i am lazy sometimes,but not lazy to the extent that i dun wanna do anything except laze ard. Hello? That day when U(that stupid E)saw me,it just so happened that that day was my free day;as in,i had no lessons. NOT that i skipped lessons ok! Not gng to sch does NOT mean i slack ard at home lo. And it's none of his business even if im really a lazy person right? Why shld he care? But no,sorry,im NOT a lazy person,get it? And doesnt he noe that,by telling my mom that,he has hurt my mom's feelings? Will u feel good if someone tells u right in the face "hey,i think ur daughter/son is a lazy person." Will anyone of u feel good? Darn. Now i feel both angry & apologetic. Angry at that stupid E and apologetic towards my mom,for making others feel that her daughter is a lazy bum. This guy E has an infant son who is not yet 1 yr old;it's still VERY early to say wat he will turn out to be. Well,since u said im lazy,i shall jus wait & see that UR son turns out to be a MUCH LAZIER person than me. HAHA.
My mom said that this guy E used to be a lazy person himself,always seemed like he's not putting enough effort in his work. Until my mom's boss told him off. My mom's boss told guy E that he shld change his lazy attitude & be more enthu in his work. So now this guy E has become more enthu & not lazy le,according to my mom. But not lazy himself does NOT mean he can come n tell my mom that she has a lazy daughter! Do i noe him VERY well??? Ahem. No lo. I dunno wat his intention of telling my mom that is,but be it good or bad intention,can he do it in a less hurtful way? Yep,maybe he told my mom that coz he believed my mom would come n tell me n then it would spur me on to be an active person. Yep,i can understand that if that is really his good intention. But then,watever it is,he has now not only incurred my wrath,he has also hurt my mom's feelings. My mom shldnt be disturbed like that,u noe. As i type this im on the verge of weeping.
Im sorry,Mom. For giving ur colleague the impression that im a lazybum. Ok,i will work hard & look like an enthu person. (I mean,be REALLY enthu. Not act.) I promise.
And to that stupid guy E out there,u r blacklisted. U better pray that u dun see me from now onwards. I will show u a very very very black face. Yes,i noe my mom has asked me NOT to show him any signs of resentment if i do see him next time but i kept silent. I cant promise i will not be hostile to him. Yeah~ this is me,a Scorpio. U dun provoke me,i dun provoke u.
p/s. i noe whoever's reading this will think im really fierce or petty or watever-u-wan-to-describe-me, but u r not me. U wont be able to understand exactly why im so pissed off. In fact, im hurt too.
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